Wednesday, May 28, 2008

The Internet Escort's Handbook Author On XBN Tonight

Via The Marketing Whore (aka Gracie Passette):

Amanda Brooks, a retired escort and author of The Internet Escort's Handbook series, will be on Cult of Gracie radio at 9 pm (central). Since Amanda's second book, Advertising and Marketing: Successfully Creating and Selling Your Image Online, is due out in June, this is an excellent time for you Marketing Whore readers to listen ~ and call in.

If it's anything like her first book (NWS), it will be brilliant ~ and useful for more than escorts and PSOs etc. So don't miss it.

For more on Amanda, see the show details.

In her review, Gracie says this of Amanda's first book:

Overall, this is one book that's as easy to review as it is to read. If you're entertaining the idea of becoming an escort, this book gives you the information to make an educated decision. And you shouldn't consider yourself really consenting to such work without making an informed, educated decision.

If you're just curious about who would become an escort, what they do etc., then you'll enjoy this book as well. And, if you're a woman who wonders why your husband or partner has (or might) use the services of a sex worker, you'll learn something as well.

In all honesty, this book could be read as a safe dating manual for the sexually active.

Knowing how to keep yourself emotionally and physically safe while being intimate is something every woman should know.

So I'm super curious!

Friday, May 16, 2008

The Return of High-Five Fridays

1 Too cool -- a dictionary to take mainstream folks to sex worker school!

2 Amber Brooks, author of The Internet Escort's Handbook, writes a beauty: media and a sex worker.

3 Gracie, in Unfinished Conversations & On The Differences Between Sex & The Intimacy Of Companionship, discusses why sex workers won't be replaced by robots.

4 Gracie also had a good week on the Internet -- even while she was away!

5 The Desiree Alliance Conference, "Pulling Back the Sheets: Sex, Work, and Social Justice", is now open for registration.

Find out how to give your High-Five Fridays here!

The purpose of this meme is to give high-fives to 5 people, posts, blogs and/or websites you've admired during the week. I will link to everyone who participates and leaves a link to their 5 high-fives on Friday. Trackbacks, pings, linky widgets, comment links accepted!

Visiting fellow High-Fivers is encouraged! If you participate, leave the link to your High-Fives in others comments (please note if NWS).


Thursday, May 15, 2008

Get Bananas Patrice At Cafe Spoogè

Trailer Trash Angel (Not Your Angel) sent me this message regarding a new girl at NF and I thought it too cute not to share:

Cafe Spoogè is now serving Bananas Patrice!



For guests with such itty-bitty limp cocks, Mademoiselle Patrice finds inserting bananas into her hungry pussy much more satisfying ~ peeled bananas are firmer than these guests, who are now ordered to view the photographic evidence:





Should you manage to follow the directions with the first photo and still have an appetite... Here are two more photos:





It was so clever, I had to take a look at her PPVs and I've decided that Mademoiselle Patrice sure has a raunchy, decadent food and sex perverted mind. So while I busy myself finishing up three custom stories, you may want to make reservations at her Cafe Spoogè, or otherwise ask her to entertain you. *wink*


Wednesday, May 14, 2008

What Do The Bonobos Know About Sex?

News from Cult of Gracie:

Cult of Gracie Radio moves to XXBN with tonight's show, featuring Dr. Susan Block, sex educator, cable TV host and author, discusses what we can learn from bonobos, the chimps who have a matriarchal culture and are recognized to have sex play a prominent role in their society. Bonobos also display compassion, empathy, kindness, patience, sensitivity, and altruism. We humans could should learn a lot from these apes so closely related to us.
About Suzy: A familiar face on HBO's late-night programming through her #1 Nielsen-rated specials, Radio Sex TV with Dr. Susan Block as well as her episodes on Real Sex, she's not only an educated sexologist, but a hot chick with a grand sense of humor to boot.
Listen to the show live here ~ and don't forget to call in!

Monday, May 12, 2008

The Panty Stickler

He (laughing because he'd just ordered a pair of my cherry red lacy panties and had scheduled an appointment for me to wear them during our call): Well, I don't have to ask you what you're wearing tonight, do I?

Me (wickedly): No -- but don't you want to hear the details about the other lingerie I'm wearing?

He (sighing): Oh yes.

Me (wickedly giggling): Funny how you're a stickler for details and I'm adding the sticky details, hmm?

He groaned in reply -- but it wasn't due to my corny pun; it was a groan of pleasure.

Vintage photo via Vintage Magazine.

Saturday, May 10, 2008

Ginger's Night

An excerpt from Ginger's Night, a custom story for a client. As we join the story in progress, here's the set up: Ginger, a self-described submissive "transgendered confused" woman, has spend a year of celibacy while exploring her emotional gender issues. Now dating Aaron, she imagines that tonight is the night. In her quest to look perfect, she is late for their date. Waiting angers Aaron, especially as he had brought along his friend, the lecherous Jack. Now Aaron has decided that Ginger will entertain and serve them at home...

"Seems you were right about little Ginger," Aaron said, turning to let Jack enter the bedroom. "She's far sluttier than I had imagined. She's going to serve us both at her home tonight. I do hope you don't mind a change in plans?" he winked at his friend.

Jack was not as tall as Aaron, but he weighed about the same. He was a large man, and he usually had a predatory look in his eye – especially where Ginger was concerned. His eyes wolfishly took in Ginger's seated form, and like a cartoon wolf, he literally licked his lips. "I don't know, Aaron, I'm pretty hungry," he said mockingly, “Do you think she can really satisfy me?”

"Oh, I'm sure Ginger can --" Aaron began, but now it was Ginger's turn to interrupt. "Heavens, Aaron, what are you talking about?" she panted.

Aaron strode sternly over to her and slowly, menacingly, he trailed his fingers down her cheek, her neck, and let them lay toying with the bits of slip lace. His eyes locked into hers, mesmerizing her, as he said, "Darling, you have guests to serve."

Ginger blinked.

"Jack take a load off, sit down," Aaron said motioning towards the bed. Jack nearly skipped to the bed, so eager he was. He plopped himself down on the edge of it and leered at Ginger, stroking himself through his suit pants.

Taking Ginger by the arm, Aaron raised her to standing and gave her a little shove towards the bed. "Serve him, Ginger."

Ginger stumbled forward, and turned to look at Aaron over her shoulder, her face a mix of shock and confusion. "Go on, honey, get on your knees and please good old Jack. He was right about you and he deserves something for that."

Ginger didn't move. She didn't dare. While part of her thrilled to please, and another part ached to be sexually free as promised, she was terrified this was a test and that by complying she would loose Aaron forever. Aaron came over to her and stood behind her, running his hands along her hourglass sides. "Come on Ginger, honey, suck Jack's cock for me," he breathed into ear.

Jack began unzipping his suit pants, pulling out his half-hard cock. Ginger still couldn't move.

Aaron spun her around to face him. They were so close that Ginger had to bend at the small of her back, pressing her pelvis into him, to look up at his face. Looking down into her eyes Aaron said, "It's OK, Ginger, suck him. It's the least you can do for keeping him waiting." He paused, still staring into her eyes. "And if you do a good job on Jack there, then you can please me next."

He spun her back to facing Jack, and pushed her forward with a slap on her rear. "Go on now, be a good bad girl,” he mocked her.

Ginger still just stood there, too bewildered to even know what to think.

Aaron came up behind her, pressed himself along her backside, and moved his hips just enough to provide Ginger the evidence that he was aroused. He bent his head down and breathed into her ear, “Go on, baby, show me what you can do. Don't you want me?”

That was all the incentive Ginger needed. She dropped to her knees, scooted forward the few remaining inches, and took Jack's cock into her right hand. Grasping it firmly, she pumped her wrist up and watched Jack's face as he smiled with delight. “She's got a good strong hand there, Aaron.”

Feeling bolder, Ginger quipped back, “That's nothin' compared to my hot little mouth.”

“Oh yeah?” Jack baited her.

Ginger said nothing, but continued to pump her hand up and down Jack's hot hard cock. Jack tipped his head back, enjoying the sensation.

Then Ginger stopped. She rose to standing and sashayed over to Aaron. Taking him by the hand, she led him to the bed and pushed him into sitting next to Jack. She turned on her heel and slowly began to dance.

Swaying slowly from side to side, rotating her shoulders slightly, twisting her hips, she danced in silence in front of both men. Certain she had their undivided attention, she turned away from them and looking teasingly over her shoulder, reached for the zipper on the back of her dress... Slowly she pulled it down. Then she coyly hooked her finger at Aaron, and pointed for him to come stand at her right. He literally leapt at the chance and was quickly at her side. Ginger put her finger on her lips, silencing him in word and deed, and bade Jack to join them on her left side. Taking each man's hand, she placed them each on one shoulder of her loose dress, then she nodded first at Jack, then Aaron, and each in turn tugged the sleeve down. Laughing, she hooked her thumbs in the waist of the dress and tugged the dress over her hips. Grabbing Aaron's hand for balance, she stepped out of the dress pooled at her feet, then shooed the men back to the bed.

Once each was seated, she returned to her dance, slowly gyrating and swaying.

After a few more minutes, Ginger reached for that hairpin and gave it a little tug, sending waves of auburn hair tumbling down around her shoulders. Aaron sighed a little, “oooh.”

Turning away from them, Ginger danced, parading her lovely rear before them, swinging it from side to side, just out of their reach. One of the men groaned and Ginger giggled in response.

Turning to face them again, and aware of her full sexual power over them, she laughingly said, “Do you really mind being late for dinner, boys?”

“For a show like this? Hell, no!” said Jack.

“But you've still got to serve us starving men something,” growled Aaron as he grabbed for her waist and pulled her to his lap.

“Hey, you said I was first!” complained Jack.

“Boys, boys,” cooed Ginger, “Why wait and take turns when you both can have me?” Sliding off Aaron's lap, she bent over Jack's and placed his throbbing cock at the edge of her mouth. With one hand, she reached around her backside and hitched her slip up as an invitation to Aaron.

Aaron's eyes glowed as he strode to stand behind her. He moaned deep in his throat as he saw what awaited him: her bared backside, covered in thin strips of garters. Undoing his belt, his trousers, and letting them fall to the floor, he took his hard dick and toyed with what she offered, the exposed parts of herself between the open bottom girdle and the stocking tops. He fingered along her anal cleavage and rubbed his head and hard shaft along her crevasse as Ginger moved her hips a little, both in her own pleasure and to further tease him.

Jack cleared his throat, signaling Ginger to lower her head to Jack's eager cock. Pursing her lips a little, she gave them a little pressure for Jack's cock to thrust through. As his cock parted her firm lips, Jack moaned loudly.

“Hold on, Jack,” Aaron laughed, “I'm just getting started.”

Ginger giggled deep in her throat as she began to suck on Jack's dick. For a few minutes she concentrated only on finding the degrees of pressure and pacing which, based on his reactions, thrilled Jack. Then she settled in, bobbing her head up and down in that rhythm, while she enjoyed Aaron's fingers and cock behind her.

Jack groaned and shut his eyes, giving into her oral skills.

Hearing Jack's groans made Aaron impatient. “Where's the lube, Ginger?”

Ginger removed her mouth from Jack's cock and shifting her weight to her left hand on the bed, she gestured with her right, pointing at her mouth, “Right here, honey,” she said.

Jack ministered himself while Aaron disengaged his feet from his pants and brought Ginger's open mouth his cock. The heat and sucking of her mouth was fantastic and he moaned in the back of his throat. Ginger was excited to suck Aaron's cock. It wasn't how she had dreamed the night would be, but finally she had his cock in her mouth and she intended to please him and herself. Lovingly, but with skill to arouse, she sucked his cock and swirled her tongue around the underside of the head.

When she was satisfied his cock was wet enough she pulled away and with a gleam in her eye, said, “I'm ready when you are.”

Before Aaron was behind her again, Jack thrust his cock back in her mouth. Firmly bracing herself with both hands on the bed in anticipation of what Aaron would do next, Ginger resumed bobbing her head up and down on Jack's cock.

Aaron, behind Ginger once again, slid his spit-lubed cock up to her waiting hole. Gently he slipped his fat cock head in about an inch. Now it was Ginger's turn to groan deep in her throat. He stood still, letting her twist her ass cunt around the head, begging for more...

And sure, this is where I stop the story for you -- I can't give it all away, can I? *wink*

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Sugasm #129

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #130? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set.

This Week’s Picks
April Showers Bring May Flowers: Part II“As mentioned earlier, this is one of the biggest hurdles to overcome; this is also where mind over matter comes into play.”

Au revoir
“In the life of an eclectic slut, however, these are all warning signs.”

Ode to Anal: Why?
“Really, for me, it was the first, and one of my foremost, all encompassing sexual acts.”

Mr. Sugasm Himself
Soviet Erotica

Editor’s Choice
Catalina loves Real Women

More Sugasm
Join the Sugasm

See also: Fleshbot’s Sex Blog Roundup each Tuesday and Friday.

Thoughts on Sex and Relationships
A Damaged Girl
Decoding More Dominant Personal Ads
Half-Nekkid on Sunday Morning
Inconvenient
“You’ve Gotta Be a Dude”: Sorry?

Sex Advice
7 Tips for Swallowing Semen
The E-Spot: No Picnic

Erotic Writing and Experiences
Black and White
Dreaming of Sleep

Epicurean
Glitter Is The Herpes Of Craft Supplies
Guest Posting - Franka
Last Night’s Swinger Party
Missed Moments
Rules Of Play
Sucking the cowboy
Temptation
V and the Red Shoes

Sex Work
Crossdressing Session 1
Of Working Girls, Working Together & Weekends Away

NSFW Pics, Videos & Audio
Camila | Table top (Hegre Art)
Its Spring!
Luba - sagittarius
Paradise Hotel 2 hottie Stephanie in sexy bikini pics
Physique
Playboy College Girls - Rebecca Matheson
Spanked HNT!

Sex News, Reviews & Interviews
Cult of Gracie Radio
DC Madam Found Guilty On Four Counts
Drive-thru Strip Club
Impertinent Question: Would You Participate in an Orgy?
Interview with Donna George Storey on erotica and Sally Rand
Just Released on DVD: Tara & Code Vol. 3!
Millian Blue HotMovies Interview
Now I Am Three
Post-Show Gossip
Safer Sex t-shirt design contest!
Too hot for Dallas!

BDSM & Fetish
Brought to Tears
Discipline…
Evil playground
Fantasy (Part 1)
My Dominant Submissive
On the bottom (part 2)
One of My Fave Ways to Cocktease…
Other World Kingdom visit - Part 1
Standing orgasm
The sum of her parts
Torture Consultant
Writers’s Conference

Friday, April 25, 2008

High-Five Fridays #15

1 A Slip of a Girl has a cute review of the cross dressing radio interview.

2 A silly classic comic on geek phone sex.

3 Required reading: The Second Feminist Carnival of Sexual Freedom and Autonomy.

4 Ms. Angela shows us the sign from heaven that we are, indeed, fucked.

5 Phone sex is an art; but if you prefer a more permanent (and visual) version, consider Not Without Art's mixed media Phone Sex piece (shown at left). If you'd like to buy it, contact info is here.

Find out how to give your High-Five Fridays here!

The purpose of this meme is to give high-fives to 5 people, posts, blogs and/or websites you've admired during the week. I will link to everyone who participates and leaves a link to their 5 high-fives on Friday. Trackbacks, pings, linky widgets, comment links accepted!

Visiting fellow High-Fivers is encouraged! If you participate, leave the link to your High-Fives in others comments (please note if NWS).

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

Lingerie Fetishists & Cross Dressers Rejoice!

Gracie, of Sex-Kitten.Net, Cult of Gracie and oodles of others, has exciting news!

Cult of Gracie Radio launches Wednesday, April 23, and (other than the first week in May, for my much deserved vacation) will air Wednesday evenings at 9 p.m. (central time). All shows are live and you can call in ~ so who knows what will happen?

Look who'll be on the very first show!

April 23 Dr. Jane Vargas, a PhD in human sexuality & expert in tease and fetish, talks cross dressing.
About Jane: After dating a fetishist, she started X-traordinary Talk as a hobby. It grew very quickly and she quit her job as a magazine editor to grow the business which is now nearly 15 years old. She earned her PhD in 2002, with a dissertation on the sexual expression of tease (as distinct from flirtation and seduction) and how tease has manifested in artwork thru the ages. All while raising two strong, feminist daughters.


I know I'll be listening. How about you?

UPDATE: You can find post-show notes here, and download/listen here.

It was an excellent show!


Of Working Girls, Working Together & Weekends Away

Before I went away for the weekend, I sent a note to my clients telling them that if they couldn't possibly wait for my return they should call Ms. Angela (of Zen Fetish). I do this sort of a thing because I know many clients are impulsive and when the itch arises, they need to scratch -- and at that time they are not often thinking so clearly. (It was difficult enough for them to find me; to find another gem is like searching for a rare golden needle in the NiteFlirt haystack. As I cater to my clients, I like to help them find quality; and knowing Ms. Angela as I do, I know they will be pleased.)

So I posted my little note for them all and went away for the weekend.

My weekend away was, by the way, a bit of culture shock for me. Not just living away from the computer and the Internet, which was strange enough, but talking with people face to face... Closer in proximity than I am with my callers, but oh what a distance between us.

I spend hours a day talking to strangers about the most intimate parts of their lives -- not just sex, but their relationships, their childhoods, what they do for a living and how they feel about that, what makes them tick, and issues of ego & self-esteem. Rather personal stuff, yes?

But this weekend I spent time talking with strangers (and a few people I'd met before) and we were talking about anything but personal things.

We talked about the weather (how cliché), the housing market (in purely theoretical terms, no personal stories), baseball (yawn), and car mileage (which made the baseball talk seem exciting). It was empty, meaningless chatter. We might as well have been extras in a movie, talking to just look natural in the background.

I thought to myself just how dull it was, annoying too; but in the end just really sad. If there was no reason for us to talk, if we didn't know each other well enough to have meaningful conversations -- nor the desire to get to know each other well enough to do so, well, what the hell were we doing there?

No wonder people feel so isolated & alone in a crowd.

No wonder they call PSOs.

Bored (and trying not to become depressed by the insipid way I was spending my time), I naturally looked around the bar.

We were sitting at a table and just off to my right was the bar, where I spotted a man surreptitiously checking out women... It was quite clear to me that he was looking for panty lines and sneaking peeks at cleavage (likely looking for lace as much as breast). I watched, hoping he'd stand up away from his bar stool and remove his jacket so that I could look for signs that he was wearing panties. I just knew if he gave me the chance, I'd see panty lines beneath his Dockers. But he didn't give me the chance.

My husband noticed that I kept my eye on this man. He knew I was suffering from my "occupational hazard" and now we couldn't look at one another for fear we'd share a laugh -- a laugh that would be very out of place in the discussion of prime mortgage lending. So we had to remain mum until we could find a moment alone to discuss panty wearing -- and my obsession with my work. Short as it was, it was the best conversation of the night. (It likely also saved us from one of those traditional post-social gathering fights, where I whine about how boring it is and he complains that I don't support his work enough.)

When I returned home from my "weekend away from it all", I discovered that one caller had been very naughty.

Drunk, he sent a message confessing his need for me, his sorrow for not having called before I left, his confusion regarding whether or not he should call Ms. Angela -- and his humiliation at having such an outpouring in a message.

My reaction? I sentenced him to serve his penance via Not Your Angel (aka Trailer Trash Angel).

He was to look at her "mock tease of a cock tease", all 6 of the photo series, without touching himself. While being humiliated by her too, of course.

Once he'd completed his task, she & I conversed about his compliance... Eventually I deemed him worthy of calling me.

But the shame & humiliation didn't end there. Much to his delight *wink*

I love my work -- and enjoy working with my fellow sex workers. Our talk, our work, is so much more interesting than banal impersonal chatter.